In 2000, Roger Rosenblatt published “Rules for Aging,” a humorous and heartfelt guide on growing older with grace. Now at 85, he’s added to his wisdom with a sequel that blends wit, humility, and hard-earned truth. His latest reflections are not just for seniors; they’re a blueprint for anyone who wants to age with dignity and purpose.
We believe estate planning is an essential piece of that purpose-driven life. Because growing older isn’t just about living longer—it’s about living better and leaving clarity, not chaos, behind. Rosenblatt’s reflections mirror the very essence of estate planning: intentionality, preparation, and compassion. Here’s how his ten timeless lessons connect beautifully with why estate planning matters more than ever.
#1 Nobody’s Thinking About You
It sounds harsh, but it’s freeing. Most people are wrapped up in their own lives, which means you don’t need to live in fear of judgment. The same goes for estate planning: don’t delay out of fear of what others might say. Do it for you. Do it because no one else will do it for you. Taking charge of your will, trust, or healthcare directive means protecting what matters when others may not be thinking ahead.
#2 Make Young Friends
Surrounding yourself with younger people brings new energy and fresh perspective—and often, gentle reminders about the future. Include these values in your estate plan. Identify the younger generation who should carry forward your legacy. Maybe it’s a grandchild, a mentee, or a family friend. An estate plan allows you to directly shape their future through thoughtful bequests, education trusts, and more.
#3 Try to See Fewer Than Five Doctors
Rosenblatt humorously points out how aging brings complexity in health. Likewise, life’s later chapters can involve multiple financial accounts, care providers, and legal documents. A well-crafted estate plan simplifies that complexity. With powers of attorney, living wills, and asset organization, you can avoid turning your legacy into a logistical nightmare.
#4 Get a Dog
Dogs are loyal, uncomplicated, and give unconditional love. When creating an estate plan, think about those you love—including your furry companions. Pet trusts are a practical and compassionate way to ensure your dog or cat is cared for if you’re not around. It’s estate planning at its most personal.
#5 Don’t Hear the Cheers
Legacy isn’t built from applause—it’s built from purposeful action. Estate planning is not flashy. No one gives you an award for doing it. But it’s one of the most meaningful ways to take care of your loved ones. Don’t wait for recognition; just get it done. Because when you’re gone, your plan will speak louder than any trophy.
#6 Everyone’s in Pain
Life is hard for all of us. That’s exactly why estate planning is an act of kindness. Losing a loved one is painful enough. Don’t add to that burden with legal confusion, missed assets, or probate delays. Estate planning makes hard times a little easier for the people you love.
#7 Take the 4 a.m. Walks
Whether it’s a daily routine or a moment of reflection, peace of mind matters. Estate planning offers peace not just to you, but to your family. Knowing that your documents are in order gives you mental clarity and allows you to focus on enjoying life instead of worrying about “what ifs.”
#8 Join a Gang (of Friends)
Connection is everything. Just like you might lean on a trusted circle of friends, estate planning leans on your circle of advisors: an attorney, financial planner, tax expert, and the people you name as fiduciaries. These roles are essential. You don’t have to do it alone, but you do have to do it.
#9 Know What You Value Most
Estate planning gives you the opportunity to name and protect what matters most: your family, your charitable causes, your home, even your values. Include letters of intent, legacy statements, or ethical wills alongside your legal documents. It turns a plan into a portrait of your life.
#10 Finish What You Started
Life is unpredictable. That’s all the more reason to complete your estate plan sooner rather than later. It’s not just a document. It’s a promise, a plan, and a peace offering. Don’t let your story end in confusion. Finish the work today that will bring clarity tomorrow.
Aging with grace isn’t accidental. It’s deliberate. It’s layered with stories, structure, and preparation. At Allison Kierman Law, we’re here to make sure your story is honored, your wishes are clear, and your legacy is one of kindness, clarity, and peace.
Let’s plan for what matters most—so you can enjoy what matters now. Call (480) 719-7333 to schedule a consultation with us today to start or update your estate plan.